A Hungarian and an Irish….
I was in love, truly, deeply in love….with my ex-boyfriend over 2
years ago…We broke up as it usually happens when you are 18. It was an
ugly ending I still loved him..Could not have stayed in Hungary any
longer, needed a change.
I quit my job and said goodbye to my family, came to Ireland to start
my life all over again. I missed him, I missed him a lot but I have
always been a strong women so I knew I cannot give up. I settled down in
the heart of Dublin, got an okay job, got friends. Had my life just
like before him..Never thought I would fall in love with somebody again
(at least not any soon). Once I was spending time on my Facebook. I saw
this advertisement about that website called ‘Love struck’, I just said
to myself why wouldn’t I try it out??? I registered..never did anything
like that before as I never believed in the way like that to find your
true love. Of course the website like that started to ask me lots of
question, I had to set up a proper profile and I just got so fed up and
left in the middle of it.
Few days later I received an email from ‘Love struck’ which said that
I should definitely go back and complete my profile as I might lose the
chance to meet somebody and that my biological clock is clicking. I was
so pissed, my biological clock???? I was 21…so I just went back and
finish up my site. Never cared about it after that. I really don’t know
how long I didn’t check my page there, I started to go out with the guy
(which was the biggest disappointment in my life)…
Once I just thought what not I’ll go and have a look…Found a few
guys, left a few message to them. Also found a guy who had written on
his profile that he is looking for a beautiful, smart, funny,
intelligent but serious girl (which was certainly everything), I
remember thinking he must be a funny guy, reading his profile a bit
further he just said “if you like what you read send me one email or two
or three”…that was a sentence made me write him a
message. Although that time I hadn’t had any profile picture and good
English he answered me back…I didn’t know what was going on in his mind
but we started to talk. We used to change emails two-three times a day,
it was like we have been together years and now we are just spending
some time apart. We talked about everything, we knew each other more
then anybody else. The time went on and we decided it to meet up. Didn’t
work. I really don’t know how people do this but after two months
talking when I met him I couldn’t introduce myself or anything like
that. It was weird and awkward. We didn’t kiss and then I left. On the
way home I thought this has been an awful date we will never see each
other again. I was disappointed but I didn’t regret any moment we spent
by emailing each other. When I got home I had an email waiting for me.
An explanation about why he acted so weird and what he really feels
about me. We agreed about an other date, next day beside the see. I had
not too much hope to be honest that anything can go better, but it did.
We had a wonderful time together. We didn’t kiss but it was still the
best day.
Days were passed, we had dated for a while until I got extremely
drunk and started to send him text messages about what and how I want to
do with him. Next day I was terrified that I lost him but no I didn’t.
It just made him realize how much he wants the same thing and how much
he wants me to be his girlfriend. I spent the night with him, that was
the first night we spent together….
A few months later he went to America, it was a business trip. Not
too long but enough to makes us finally realize we are in love. When he
came home it was the first time we said, we love each other…
It has all been over a year. We are living together now and have an
adorable little dog as well. We have arguments of course, and fights
several times but I know that I can’t be happier than that.
My life has been totally changed. I left my country, my family, my friends but I found my new home, my new family…
Since I know he is my better half, I cannot imagine my life without
him the only thing I can’t wait for is to be his wife and make him
happier then ever.
Thank you ‘Love Struck”
a story from: http://www.lovestory.com.au/love-articles/stories/a-hungarian-and-an-irish%E2%80%A6/